Romantic Love On Valentine For Couples
Give him flowers for Valentine! But do not forget to
express your love, the rest of the year.
The hearts are everywhere.Small scattered cupidons shop
windows.The romance is in the air. Only a few weeks before
Feb. 14, but the commercial machine is already engaged. On
the day of Valentine approach.
This is a unique opportunity this year to express his love
with romance.
I have nothing against expressing his love and affection.
In fact, I am absolutely for. And more is sought, the
better! The
chocolates
are better than flowers and
chocolates to
diamonds.
It is crucial in my opinion to express his love as often
as possible and showing his affection for each other as
often as possible.
However, I think these extravagant and demonstrations are
of secondary importance compared to our behavior every
day. For me, true love is reflected by caring gestures on
a daily basis. With a smile, when we grognon. Listening,
when we would have preferred to speak or being alone.In
serving our spouse a cup of coffee, when we are tired than
him. That's love!
LOVE TO MY EYES
My vision of love is devoid of this side sensational own
romanticism. It is not vested by the cinema. But it allows
a
marriage to
exist, long after the initial glow of romanticism has been
tarnished.
My husband and I always quote: "Speak less love and take
out the trash more often!" I do not remember having even
more pronounced these words, but their message is right.
We can not measure love, based on the boxes of Godiva that
has been received (which are delicious, but suspect an act
of passive aggression on the part of those who offer to
sabotage weight loss painstakingly won). As I said,
express their feelings in concrete can be wonderful, but
if there are only on this single occasion in the year ...
This is far from enough.
A LOVE SOUND
Judaism is a religion rationally. This also marriage and
love.
It is not a question of "Am I in love with him?" But "Does
it sound values?". No "the atmosphere was pleasant" but
"is this a mensch (man in Yiddish)?"Not "a serenade under
a starry sky" but "attention, sensitivity, loyalty." Not
"a sunset on the beach," but "we are able to build a
family and raising a family together?" No "a dozen red
roses and a hotel room at the Ritz, "but" we have the same
ambitions in life? "
Do not get me wrong, I have nothing against a hotel room
at the Ritz. I would love to have one. But we must still
separate the icing of the
cake. The icing symbolizes all that is superficial.
It serves no purpose to have a sophisticated
decoration on a
cake that will
spoil too quickly.
Of course it takes a certain alchemy. This is vital for
the existence of a marriage.But this is neither the first
factor, or the determining factor.
The life we experienced in many ways. A marriage based
solely on alchemy and the romance will not survive the
test of time. However a marriage based on common values
and common goals, a good character, a deep and sincere
affection, can withstand all kinds of weather.
So let's go. Do something for our spouse on February 14 -
offer him a gift, a card, do something particularly nice
to mark the coup as preparing breakfast, leave the trash.
But let us do so also on 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 ... This is
the only way to perpetuate the love between couples.
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